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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
« Last post by CD on August 10, 2015, 07:01:51 PM »
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote                8/10/15


We find that the smallest deed is better than the grandest intention.

My actions speak louder than words. What are my actions saying now?
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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Just For Today
« Last post by CD on August 09, 2015, 04:25:02 PM »

August 9 , 2015

The Power of love

“We begin to see that God’s love has been present all the time, just waiting for us to accept it.”

Basic Text, p. 46

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God’s love is the transforming power that drives our recovery.  With that love, we find freedom from the hopeless, desperate cycle of using, self-hatred, and more using.  With that love, we gain a sense of reason and purpose in our once purposeless lives.  With that love, we are given the inner direction and strength we need to begin a new way of life: the NA way.  With that love, we begin to see things differently, as if with new eyes.

As we examine our lives through the eyes of love, we make what may be a startling discovery:  The loving God we’ve so recently come to understand has always been with us and has always loved us.  We recall the times when we asked for the aid of a Higher Power and were given it.  We even recall times when we didn’t ask for such help, yet were given it anyway.  We realize that a loving Higher Power has cared for us all along, preserving our lives till the day when we could accept that love for ourselves.

The Power of love has been with us all along.  Today, we are grateful to have survived long enough to become consciously aware of that love’s presence in our world and our lives.  Its vitality floods our very being, guiding our recovery and showing us how to live.

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Just for today:  I accept the love of a Higher Power in my life.  I am conscious of that Power’s guidance and strength within me.  Today, I claim it for my own.

Copyright © 1991-2015 by Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
« Last post by CD on August 09, 2015, 04:23:50 PM »
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote    8/9/15


'Forgiveness is not an occasional act; it is a permanent attitude.
 ~Martin Luther King.
Undoubtedly, there are many on your list to forgive. There is only one whom you must forgive that is yourself.'

Because my Higher Power forgives me, I forgive myself.
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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Just For Today
« Last post by CD on August 08, 2015, 05:19:45 PM »
August 8 , 2015

Responsible recovery

“...we accept responsibility for our problems and see that we’re equally responsible for our solutions.”

Basic Text, p. 94

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Some of us, well accustomed to leaving our personal responsibilities to others, may attempt the same behavior in recovery.  We quickly find out it doesn’t work.

For instance, we are considering making a change in our lives, so we call our sponsor and ask what we should do.  Under the guise of seeking direction, we are actually asking our sponsor to assume responsibility for making decisions about our life.  Or maybe we’ve been short with someone at a meeting, so we ask that person’s best friend to make our apologies for us.  Perhaps we’ve imposed on a friend several times in the last month to cover our service commitment.  Could it be that we’ve asked a friend to analyze our behavior and identify our shortcomings, rather than taking our own personal inventory?

Recovery is something that has to be worked for.  It isn’t going to be handed to us on a silver platter, nor can we expect our friends or our sponsor to be responsible for the work we must do ourselves.  We recover by making our own decisions, doing our own service, and working our own steps.  By doing it for ourselves, we receive the rewards.

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Just for today:  I accept responsibility for my life and my recovery.

Copyright © 1991-2015 by Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
« Last post by CD on August 08, 2015, 05:18:49 PM »
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote     8/8/15


Our lives become very different once we learn to magnify our blessings the way we have our troubles.

What I think about enlarges. Am I enlarging my blessings or my troubles?
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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Just For Today
« Last post by CD on August 07, 2015, 10:32:13 PM »
August 7 , 2015

The gratitude list

“We focus on anything that isn’t going our way and ignore all the beauty in our lives.”

Basic Text, p. 77

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It’s easy to be grateful when everything runs smoothly.  If we get a raise at work, we’re grateful.  If we get married, we’re grateful.  If someone surprises us with a nice present or an unasked favor, we’re grateful.  But if we get fired, divorced, or disappointed, gratitude flies out the window.  We find ourselves becoming obsessed with the things that are wrong, even though everything else may be wonderful.

This is where we can use a gratitude list.  We sit down with a pen and paper and list the people for whom we are grateful.  We all have people who’ve supported us through life’s upheavals.  We list the spiritual assets we have attained, for we know we could never make it through our present circumstances without them.  Last, but not least, we list our recovery itself.  Whatever we have that we are grateful for goes on the list.

We’re sure to find that we have literally hundreds of things in our lives that inspire our gratitude.  Even those of us who are suffering from an illness or who have lost all material wealth will find blessings of a spiritual nature for which we can be thankful.  An awakening of the spirit is the most valuable gift an addict can receive.

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Just for today:  I will write a list of things, both material and spiritual, for which I am grateful.

Copyright © 1991-2015 by Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
« Last post by CD on August 07, 2015, 10:31:04 PM »
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote     8/7/15


Who knows why they are chemically dependent? The answer will not change the fact, and yet many continue to question, why? Indeed, they need an answer, but they are asking the wrong question. The real question is, 'How can I become free? Free of the fear. Free of the pain. Free of the bondage.

I do not receive the right answer when I ask the wrong question.
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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Just For Today
« Last post by CD on August 06, 2015, 06:47:48 PM »

August 6 , 2015

The joy within

“Since the beginning of our recovery, we have found that joy doesn’t come from material things but from within ourselves.”

Basic Text, p. 107

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Some of us came to Narcotics Anonymous impoverished by our disease.  Everything we’d owned had been lost to our addiction.  Once we got clean, we put all our energy into recovering our material possessions, only to feel even more dissatisfied with our lives than before.

Other members have sought to ease their emotional pain with material things.  A potential date has rejected us?  Let’s buy something.  The dog has died?  Let’s go to the mall.  Problem is, emotional fulfillment can’t be bought, not even on an easy installment plan.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with material things.  They can make life more convenient or more luxurious, but they can’t fix us.  Where, then, can true joy be found?  We know; the answer is within ourselves.

When have we found joy?  When we’ve offered ourselves in service to others, without expectation of reward.  We’ve found true warmth in the fellowship of others—not only in NA, but in our families, our relationships, and our communities.  And we’ve found the surest source of satisfaction in our conscious contact with our God.  Inner peace, a sure sense of direction, and emotional security do not come from material things, but from within.

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Just for today:  True joy can’t be bought.  I will seek my joy in service, in fellowship, in my Higher Power—I will seek within.

Copyright © 1991-2015 by Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
« Last post by CD on August 06, 2015, 06:46:36 PM »
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote      8/6/15


Before our recovery we used people and loved things and given recovery we learn to love people and use things. Things are not important, people are.

I treat others the way I would be treated.
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Meditations and ponderings / Re: Just For Today
« Last post by CD on August 04, 2015, 08:30:35 PM »
August 4 , 2015

When is a secret not a secret?

“Addicts tend to live secret lives....  It is a great relief to get rid of all our secrets and to share the burden of our past.”

Basic Text, p. 32

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We’ve heard it said that “we’re as sick as our secrets.”  What do we keep secret, and why?

We keep secret those things that cause us shame.  We may hold onto such things because we don’t want to surrender them.  Yet if they’re causing us shame, wouldn’t we live more easily with ourselves if we were rid of them?

Some of us hold onto the things that cause us shame for another reason.  It’s not that we don’t want to be rid of them; we just don’t believe we can be rid of them.  They’ve plagued us for so long, and we’ve tried so many times to rid ourselves of them, that we’ve stopped hoping for relief.  Yet still they shame us, and still we keep them secret.

We need to remember who we are: recovering addicts.  We who tried so long to keep our drug use a secret have found freedom from the obsession and compulsion to use.  Though many of us enjoyed using right to the end, we sought recovery anyway.  We just couldn’t stand the toll our using was taking on us.  When we admitted our powerlessness and sought help from others, the burden of our secret was lifted from us.

The same principle applies to whatever secrets may burden us.  Yes, we’re as sick as our secrets.  Only when our secrets stop being secret can we begin to find relief from those things that cause us shame.

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Just for today:  My secrets can make me sick only as long as they stay secret.  Today, I will talk with my sponsor about my secrets.

Copyright © 1991-2015 by Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved

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